Ask for a decision
Try “would you choose this again?” before asking for a score. Yes, no and yes-with-a-change are enough to decide whether the meal belongs in the rotation.
If someone is tired or not hungry, note that context. One half-finished bowl does not automatically mean the recipe failed.
Describe the change precisely
“Less lemon next time” is useful. “Make it better” leaves the next cook with an unpaid research project. Separate flavour, texture, portion and effort so the note points to an action.
For example: keep the chickpea orzo, start with less lemon juice, and serve extra lemon separately. That is a preference to try, not proof that the original amount is wrong.
| Vague note | Useful next action |
|---|---|
| Too much going on | Serve the chili separately |
| Took forever | Choose this on a night with more prep time |
| Not enough | Review the planned portions |
Keep the note small
Attach one note to the dinner or the household preferences, wherever both people will find it. Avoid maintaining a separate essay about every meal.
Try one change when you make it again. If you alter the sauce, portion and cooking method together, it becomes harder to tell which change helped.
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