Include the missing job
Say what the ingredient was for: “No courgettes for tonight’s tomato gnocchi.” Then describe the option you can actually see, such as a pepper or a different package size.
Check whether the ingredient is central to the dish or an optional finish. Missing parsley may be a smaller decision than missing the gnocchi itself.
Use a complete short message
Try: “No 400 g courgettes for the gnocchi. They have two red peppers weighing about 350 g. Would those work, or should I skip them and leave the recipe change to you?”
This gives the cook enough context to accept, decline or choose another dinner. It does not assume every vegetable cooks the same way.
| Include | Example |
|---|---|
| Missing item and form | 400 g fresh courgettes |
| Recipe affected | Tonight’s tomato gnocchi |
| Available option | Two red peppers, about 350 g |
| Decision needed | Replace, skip or change dinner |
Agree what happens without a reply
Before shopping, decide whether the shopper may choose routine alternatives or should leave uncertain items off the list. Check dietary requirements and labels for any accepted replacement.
Record what was actually bought and revise the recipe if needed. A shopper’s substitution and a cook’s method change are two parts of the same decision.
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